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Sex and Happiness

OMG, yesterday was possibly the most exciting day of my life! The 3rd edition of my book, Sex and Happiness made it to Amazon Best Seller status in four countries on three continents! It placed #1 in the US, the UK, Canada and Australia. That makes me an International best Selling author!

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Could hardly believe it. Could hardly breathe by the end of the day when the statistics came rolling in. It ranked in the top five book in all four countries under the categories Mysticism, Marriage, Yoga and Tantra, Parents and Relationships. A couple of those made me laugh. And yet, I could see the correlation between them and Sex and Happiness.

This 3rd edition is as yet only available in the Kindle version. Many people wrote to question me about that yesterday. My response was simply this, “You can download and app for reading on your smart phones. You do not necessarily need a Kindle device.”

Of course, Sex and Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy in paperback is still available here in my store and at Amazon as well for $19.99. If you prefer to own a physical book, don’t worry. I have plenty in stock and can ship to almost anywhere.

Thank you to all the people who supported me through the Best Seller Campaign. Special thanks goes out to Niki Faldemolaei, Sandi Masori and Steve Laurvick, my awesome marketing team.

Come with Me to Hedonism II – Oct 10-17

In a few months, I’ll be hosting my third trip to Hedonism II. I have this short video of why you’ll  want to join me there. Right now, there are still spaces available and I would love to have you with my group for sure. Last year some people missed out because they waited too long and the resort was fully booked. Don’t let be you this year! Don’ miss out on the adventure of a lifetime! Many people have made it a recurring adventure for good reason!

Come with me to Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica. I’ll be teaching Tantra each day for an hour and a half. The rest of the time will be one big party possibly like you’ve never imagined before because at Hedonism ANYTHING GOES! And I mean ANYTHING!

What if you gave yourself permission to take this kind of a vacation? Coming there with me gives you a safety net when you need it. We’ll be a group within the larger group of vacationers and we’ll come together a couple times a day to check in and see how everybody’s doing. I know you’ll be doing better than fine! Please consider.

I invite you to my conference call for newbies to ask any questions they may have about the resort and this trip I have planned for you. The dates for the call are February 10 and March 17 at 6pm mountain time (8 Eastern, 5 Pacific). Here’s the number to call in 760-569-7676 Code 409432#


Get in touch with me right away (623) 237-9619 if you are considering, but not sure. Let’s talk about it!

My Feelings About the ISTA Level 1 Training

We’re offering the ISTA Level 1 Training

Better known to many of you as the SSSex Level 1, this week-long retreat will be offered in Phoenix, AZ Sept 21-28. The facilitators are my self, Crystal Dawn Morris and Lawrence Lanoff. I f I say so myself, we are an amazing team!

I thought I should share my feelings about it with you here.

For more details, you can click the workshops tab above and find out everything you need to know in order to join us! Please consider this invitation seriously. This training rocks!

Friends with Benefits

Sex and Happiness Show this week

Reid Mihalko, shares about his experience creating friends with benefits and how it adds to his sex and happiness.

If Jon Stewart and Dr. Ruth had an illegitimate child, it would be sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in relationships and sex and happiness in their lives.

Reid describes how a person goes about finding and negotiating the possibility of having sex and other cuddly experiences with people one knows or meets. Lots of fun, sex and happiness!

Sex and Happiness Show

Sexy Threesome and Kink/Poly Positive Psychotherapist

Sex and Happiness Show this week

This episode of Sex and Happiness features two of three co-partners who organically fell in love. They weren’t looking for love. They were looking for great sex with no strings! Leena and Remy talk about previous relationships where they could never be themselves. They vulnerably expose how damaged they were and how they came together and healed themselves and also came together with Nessa, their third partner. They feel non-monogamy adds to their ability to communicate and has changed their lives for the better.

In Segment 2 of Sex and Happiness, Stephen Biggs, a Toronto psychotherapist, joins the show to discuss his specialty – negotiating consensual monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. His biggest message is to act courageously in personal matters in order to get what you want in your relationships. In other words, go for what you want in your life. Discover your power, try new things, take risks and be open to failure and success.

This is a Sex and Happiness episode for people poly curious, bi-curious, kink curious and those who are looking for help about these lifestyles.

Sex and Happiness Show

Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life

Sex and Happiness Show this week: Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life

This episode features four co-authors of the newly released anthology Sexy Secrets to Juicy Love Life. The compiler of the book Lorii Abela, matchmaker and expert on soul mates leads off explaining how/why she called the twenty nine authors into this project. Lori is followed by Stacey Murphy, sex and intimacy coach specializing in helping women attract empowering relationships. Stacey offers powerful tips for being seductive and sensual. Then coach Michael Santonato, author of “Single and Stuck” and “Find ‘Em Keep ‘Em” weighs in on sex and attracting the right partner. Finally, international relationship mentor, author Rach Wilson discusses how couples have to discard “the rules” and make their own to be happy ever after!

What a line up! This show featuring Sexy Secrets to Juicy Love Life is packed with hot tips for everyone – those in relationship and those looking! The giveaways are many! Don’t miss it!

Sacred Sexuality in Peru



Solstice PujaWinter Solstice Puja with Laurie Handlers 

What is a Puja? Puja in Sanskrit means reverence, honor and adoration or worship. In this ancient ceremony men honor and bless women as the Goddess. Women honor and bless men as the God. It’s a beautiful way to show respect and experience deep connection.

Why is a Puja so special?  During Puja, each participant is fully present in every moment while making offerings to the God or Goddess in each person. Each participant honors himself or herself by attending!

Puja is very special to me! It was in just this ceremony many years ago that my life shifted never to go back to the old way of being for me. I experienced myself as being love, being worthy of love, being loved! I cried my way through the first go round when the women rotated to each man and the men kissed our feet and our bellies. I certainly had never experienced anything like this before! Somewhere in the middle of the ritual, I decided to make this life my reality – men honoring women and women honoring men.  Soon thereafter Butterfly Workshops was born.

This is a Winter Solstice event in Phoenix will be spectacular!

If you are in Arizona, please come and join me! I will be honored to have you there.

When Saturday 12/21

Time: 8-10pm

Go here for more information.



New!!! Sex Magic & Intimate Ritual Testimonials Video

Sex Magic & Intimate Ritual Testimonials Video

Here’s some great testimonials about my latest Sex Magic & Intimate Ritual course! These people and the others who attended were on fire. I hope you enjoy it! It’s only a minute, yet powerful!

New Sex Magic & Intimate Ritual Testimonials

Perhaps you’d like to take your lovemaking to a higher level? Perhaps things have gotten stale between you and your partner? Perhaps you want to use your orgasms to create what you want in your life?  All this is possible through this amazing course. Just click play and see what these people had to say about it!

Is Sex Magic & Intimate Ritual for you?

Yes, absolutely if you said yes to any of the questions above. There is a pre-requisite. You have to have taken either my Bliss: beginner’s Tantra course or someone else’s beginner’s Tantra course before attending. Also, this course requires you have an intimate partner or are willing to be fixed up with a conscious partner.

Next course coming in early 2014. Stay tuned.


Testimonial from a Sex Magic Graduate on Latihan








Depth and breadth meant nothing as

Did I graze the moss on a forest tree? Stroke the glistening fur of a baby seal?

I danced the mystery of Latihan.

Perhaps it was a his body… or a hers. Reach.

Touch. Touch more. she is She.


Connect me with a Yes

or maybe a Maybe.

I’ll leave with a No.


You feel so good; the taste of you soaks the air.

Touch me with a Yes.

A longing welcoming Yes.



The message you send steals into my consciousness. Almost imperceptible.

But there is no mistake.  You say YES.

Stay. Oh please stay. Blend your body into mine; let your touch awaken my soul.


I lean into your space.  Closer now and closer still until

I feel your breath on my face, your heart beating hard within an inch of mine.

My hands feel your outline slowly, ever so slowly, and find their way into your hair.

Your head leans backward inviting my mouth forward.


My invisible kiss does not even bend your lip

but your heart stops

in time with mine.


Your touch pulls the very breath from my body and mine yours.

You drink me in and

I pour myself into you.  We are one.


Be brave dear one, but be careful with my heart for I am naked in your hands.


- Steve C., Sex Magic Graduate, Phoenix, AZ